Are we going down the same track as the last two Autumns?

Today I called our primary care physician. James is still having short term memory problems, is sleepy, has hot and cold sweats, is coughing slightly and has vertigo issues. These are the same symptoms as in October, 2008.

I am certain that these symptoms which were diagnosed as dementia the first time are not dementia! I believe that James is fighting an infection that is causing the symptoms. I hope our doctor will see the same progression and follow some type of testing to rule out a repeat of 2008.

James saw the surgeon yesterday and he discovered a lymph node that was enlarged. This can be caused by infection or cancer. It was the final trigger for my call to our doctor. Also, the hernia is not a hernia. It is Diastasis recti.

Please pray for all caregivers, dementia patients and their extended families.

Thank you.

Oh, not again

DH is starting to show signs of short term memory loss. I cannot believe that this is happening again. I need to talk to his doctor about it...but it looks like DH will be having surgery shortly and we don't need two problems at the same time.

It is so hard to be a caregiver to someone who does not realize that they are presenting symptoms like this. It is cruel to point it out, but there is a catch 22 if you don't mention the problem and then they remember that they already knew it.

Pray for all caregivers and families of dementia patients. Thank you.

Confusion

Over the weekend DH had trouble figuring what day of the week it was.

Also, after we had discussed the menu for dinner he asked me how the hot dogs were doing and I wasn't making hot dogs I was making nachos.

Please continue to pray for all dementia patients, their caregivers and family and friends.

Confusion

This morning on the way to work I told DH I was looking forward to my vacation day tomorrow. He looked at me like "do I know about this?". I told him I was taking a class at my local quilt shop. He just got that man look that says there she goes again.

Just the same, he should have had a reaction that showed that he didn't remember me telling him about it. Because I didn't tell him about it. I wasn't sure how to bring it up in conversation.

Contrary to logic I wished he had said something to indicate that I hadn't told him yet.

Please keep praying for all dementia patients and their friends, family and caregivers.

Still small memory episodes

Every evening when I get home from work DH asks what is for supper. Last night I told him we were having a pork roast. I started the roast while DH was snoozing through the even news. DH woke up and asked again what are we having for supper.

Although this seems minor, it is still a concern. It is not the first time this question repeating circumstance has happened.

Please continue to pray for all dementia patients, their caregivers, families and friends. Also pray for the doctor's and nurses who care for dementia patients.

More short term forgetfulness

We are back to a two car family. I have the choice of the Buick or the Mercury. The Mercury has a heater for the winter that plugs in to keep the oil and engine warm. Yesterday DH reminded me four times that if I took the Mercury to work today I would have to unplug it before I drove it. This morning he reminded me a fifth time.

I think he is aware of what is happening. Last night a medium sized fight of words broke out. He has been so stable with his temper for the last two months. I don't know if this is a sign of frustration.

Until I have sufficient information I am not going to confide in the doctor about what I am thinking. More observation is needed between then and now.

Please keep praying for all dementia patients, their caregivers and extended family and friends.

I hope that what I see isn't

DH is starting to show very tiny signs that he may have Dementia. We went through this before and it was no fun. We thought that the diagnosis was wrong because of the severe staph infection. He has been off his Namenda since October 28, 2009.

The tiny symptoms started during January. I don't think he is aware of it. Somehow I need to start a journal at home and note down each time without his being aware.

This is a total set back and I am depressed about it.

Keep praying for all dementia patients, their caregivers, family and friends.